You be source of joy for youself !!

Joyfulness is a state of mind in which happiness and cheerfulness just oozes out of you of your heart for no reason. You just feel like whistling, of humming a favorite song, pinching the cheeks the person in front of you, feel like giving hug to someone, run like a child on the streets with open arms, kiss a flower or a tree in the garden and list can include all sorts of crazy things you don't do otherwise normally!

                       Most of the people I meet everyday are waiting for a special occasion to be happy and cheerful. They want to celebrate only organized festivals. Many people postpone  their chances of having good times  since the loved one can't join them  now. Most of the times the miss those opportunities forever. These people miss the their dear ones so much that they  the deprive themselves of all the fun in the present.

                                All the problem starts when we find out that all our sacrifices are not expected from us by our loved ones ,and they are willing to reciprocate in the same way!! It may be too late also to get back what all you missed.

                                   Don't give the remote control of your happiness and joy in someone Else's hands, don’t make anybody as the pivot of your happiness, otherwise you can never be happy, in other words better you be your own source your joy and happiness, for it is good for you and also for others!!    

  

Think, there must be a better way....

When you are used to certain comforts and facilities, you get accustomed to them so much , suddenly you are deprived of those comforts , you start feeling helpless and rather irritated. Here the one I am referring is the internet  access. I was spending most of my time browsing the web, rather stumbling upon, interacting in face book  with my friends  playing online games and so on.. Suddenly for the past two days, the internet access was stopped because we have applied for a new plan  and the internet cannot be accessed till they give us a new password and user id.

                                       I felt like fish out of water since all activities in the web could not be done . I  blamed my husband we he rang up and he was upset with my remarks. I felt sorry the since he is no way responsible for what happened, rather he applied for a new plan in order to help me to use the net for online teaching job. I felt very bad for  showing  all my frustration to my husband and spoiling his mood!! I have done like this quite often in the past and I wish that this should be last time.

                                         I was thinking of the ways of spending my time usefully  and started clicking on each and every  icons on the desktop and finding  out about the application. Then I found out so much can be done even offline and put thoughts in this page!!All my frustration turned into flow of thoughts and that what you are reading now! I wanted to pen my thoughts I could do it. I told myself, "don't lose heart, think there must  be a better way …" This can be applied in any similar situation  in our life, "think, there must be a better way".

EXPAND YOUR MENTAL HORIZAN!!

IT''S NATURAL TO HAVE ATTACHMENT AND LOVE ON BIOLOGICAL RELATIONSHIPS LIKE PARENTS, SIBLINGS AND CHILDREN .AS WE MATURE,INCLUDE OUR FRIENDS NEIGHBORS IN OUR CIRCLE OF LOVED ONES.EXPANSION OF AREA OF THIS CIRCLE IS AN INDICATION OF OUR GROWTH AS A MATURE HUMAN BEING.  THE MOST LOVED PEOPLE OF THE WORLD LIKE MOTHER TERESA,MAHATMA GANDHI,ABRAHAM LINCOLN MARTIN LUTHER KING AN SO ON HAD THE WHOLE UNIVERSE INCLUDED IN THEIR CIRCLE OF LOVED ONES.THERE ARE A NUMBER OF GREAT SOULS LIKE THEM WHOM CAN'T MENTION DUE TO LACK OF TIME OR DUE TO MY LIMITED KNOWLEDGE!
                            I WANT TO MENTION THE SPECIAL TYPE OF PEOPLE WHOSE CIRCLE SHRINKS DAY BY DAY AS THEY GROW OLDER, AND THEY INCLUDE ONLY THEIR WIFE AND CHILDREN IN IT,NOT EVEN THEIR MOTHER!! I REALLY PITY SUCH PEOPLE BECAUSE THEY DON'T KNOW THAT TOO MUCH OF DEPENDENCY WILL LEAD TO STRAINED RELATIONSHIP! WHEN THEY WERE EXCLUDED FROM THE OTHER PERSON'S CIRCLE, THEY WON'T KNOW WHERE TO GO AND WHOM TO LOVE!!